Start getting late for appointments and family gatherings. I want to see how long it will take until someone stops meeting with you or at least makes a remark.

Start promising things to friends and family, build expectations and then never deliver.

In the end you can start doing drugs and see how people react when you show up to grandma birthday stoned.

Family is also a family as long as you stick to some norms. No one loves you unconditionally. Workplace is a family but there is obviously different set of expectations and evaluation is more direct.

While family doesn't expect you to deliver value for them every day like a workplace, there is still a lot of expectations to be met.