IRC is not a home. Discord is a home. FreeNode is (was?) a home. The admin and moderation team (and the corporate structure therein) makes a difference that technical details cannot replicate.
But with Discord users are locked in to use the closed source Discord clients, or reverse engineer the discord “protocol” and risk being banned because of it.
> You are not mistaken. We do not support 3rd party clients, and they are not allowed per our ToS/API ToS.
https://old.reddit.com/r/discordapp/comments/8tukek/ripcord_...
Email is what makes it happen that systems can exchange messages with each other. Much like Matrix. Much unlike Discord.
> They want ... some ... service that gives them email.
Aren't these two statements contradictory?
"I have email" and "I have email service" mean the same thing to me.