ultimately what we'd like to see is entirely NDA-free PDKs even for 12nm and below, and you can run the VLSI tools and generate the
EXACT GDS-II yourself, then yes, de-cap the processor and do a digital comparison.
before you even get to that stage, you run the Formal Correctness Proofs and unit tests on the HDL, so that YOU have confidence that the HDL which you're about to generate the GDS-II files from is actually correct and does the damn job.
example of a Formal Correctness Proof for the fixed arithmetic Power ISA pipeline:
https://git.libre-soc.org/?p=soc.git;a=blob;f=src/soc/fu/alu...
runs with symbiyosys, so you end up running SAT Solvers like yices2 and z3.
basically we absolutely do not want to be the people you come to and say, "can we trust your ASIC?" and like Intel they lie to you and say "of course!", we want to say, "don't bloody well ask us, go run the damn tools yourself! oh, btw, if you want help with that we charge USD 5k per hour"