There is a reason why the most willing to employ it stay in control. If you don't believe this is the case. Think next time about the first thing a cop does when things don't go as planned.

They call for more backup. More violence.

It is the fundamental unpleasantness and unsatisfactory dissonance with the ideal of a civil society that keeps us from seeing or presenting the world as such, but when the chips are down; are you willing to make the other SOB in your way die for he believes is right is the most pertinent question.

It ain't pretty, but fail to recognize it at your own peril.