See https://golem.ph.utexas.edu/category/2021/06/large_sets_1.ht... for tackling the "large cardinal pissing contest" that is much of modern set theory.
Your very statement is a good retreat from platonism with blinders, acknowledging the inherit "moral relativism" that there are many possible foundations, and it is up to usflawed humans to decide what we like to work with best.
The earlier intuitionists like Brouwer were polemicists, perhaps because they felt very alone. Now there is a good network of CS-mathematician hybrids to keep everyone feeling more sane.
Here we see the dual track that you can question your foundational choices and your higher level abstractions (point-set topology vs locales which are distilled to being purely order-theoretic) concurrently. It's nice to take the same skepticism and interest in finding definitions the work with not alienste the working mathematician at multiple levels.
Because, for all the trepidation about abandoning ZFC, the mainstream formalizations have clearly failed in that mathematicians that aren't logicians or set theorists would rather engage with them as little as possible.