> I can attest that what drove us is not the desire to differentiate, but that the mainstream elite were lifeless bullshit
Here you state that the mainstream elite was "lifeless bullshit."
> we wanted to express something new
And you wanted to express NOT lifeless bullshit.
> that only we could sense. We were being us
This is what the mainstream elite couldn't see or make. It was NOT mainstream elite thought.
> it's what the mainstream now sounds like
The mainstream adopted it, and now there's a new generation of people who think that sound is mainstream lifeless bullshit and will create something that is NOT mainstream lifeless bullshit. This is not part of the Graeber thesis, but aligns well with the original post.
I also want to be clear that I don't think this is supposed to be a conscious process - there are times when people are intentionally contrarian but there are also people and groups who are unconsciously contrarian simply by saying "I don't like this thing."