Am at the same point. Have been thinking about a variety of options 1. bidirectional pacts with self-hosting friend 2. creating a network and culture of self hosting techies that develop the skills to assist (money and documentation required here but more resilient than no 1) 3. investing in your kids.

Technically option 3 should be the best since it also engineers around generations (options 1 and 2 would roughly be locked to a narrower age group). But it also can be a double edge sword, what if they don’t like tech? Or if you overdo it with trying to make them interested in tech and self hosting and it backfires?

So yeah, no real solution yet. But I’d subscribe to that newsletter if there was one