Note that the world's biggest content site, Wikipedia, allows anonymous edits and always has. And note also that some of big tech companies, despite having all the money in the world, still have problems with fake accounts. So at best, requiring user accounts is one possible anti-abuse step, but it's neither necessary nor sufficient to prevent abuse.
Not really. You can't edit Wikipedia from a VPN (even with a user account!), and I think they ban most datacenters. The edits aren't really anonymous if they publicly associate with a piece of PII that, for most people, directly maps to their name and home address.
Counter-example: stackoverflow is also reasonably big and allows anonymous questions, answers, and even edits, without publishing an IP address or anything. The edits end up in a review queue, the rest I think is actually published immediately.
If IP addresses didn't matter for privacy, Tor routing wouldn't exist. If IP addresses weren't useful for blocking specific users, IP bans wouldn't exist. If IP addresses weren't useful for tracking, operators wouldn't have gotten up in arms about Apple's private relay service. Obviously this stuff matters.
Remember that not everyone lives in or around San Francisco. For someone in a suburban/rural area, an IP address combined with things like timestamps, user ids, and the text of the edits can go a really long way towards unmasking them. Even for people who live in more urban areas, it is still obviously easier to find someone who lives in San Francisco than it is to find someone who could be living anywhere on the West Coast. If they could also have been using a VPN, or time-shifting their posts... that makes it even harder.
In contrast, how hard do you really think it would actually be to get some address data from a voter roll or via a warrant or even just through one of the scummy person lookup services online and to iterate through everyone who shares that IP address and check to see how many of them are named Pietri? Or who have shared the username wpietri across another account, or posted somewhere else at roughly the same time? Your IP address is drastically reducing the search-space for other attacks, many of which (timing, text-analysis, etc) are impossible to get rid of when making a Wikipedia edit.
It's not good for growth, but some websites are fine with that.
If I'm in the picky group, and we send out 5 invites total, but the unpicky group sends out 10, then 2/3 of the invites are unpicky - if the groups are the same size, which they probably won't be for a while (I'm probably inviting people who are almost as picky as I am)
There's also someone on the team who thinks we'd grow faster if we simplified the onboarding process, which is true but also means when we piss off some user they can create a bunch of accounts while they're still spun up and cause a bunch of overhead for the support team and the developers. That gets expensive too.