What about meta-mathematics? Topology? Logics? History of mathematics? Philosophy of mathematics? Combinatorics? Number theory? Discrete mathematics? Graph theory? In the post, the fieds under "electives" are by far the most interesting ones, IMHO.
And I fully agree, in-depth knowledge of probability theory as well as descriptive statistics and of course the application to systematic and sound decision making is absolute key, and ought to be taught to anyone from medic to policy makers (scary: Gigerenzer showed that medics tend to be confused about the difference between P(A|B) and P(B|A) - the very people whose job it is to diagnose whether you have cancer or not!).
Honestly all of those feel more niche than calculus. I agree with you and joatmon-snoo on the usefulness of statistics and would probably support bumping calculus in favor of statistics, but meta-mathematics, topology, logic (which bleeds into meta-mathematics), combinatorics (which is kind of covered by stats), number theory, discrete mathematics, and graph theory are all much less useful even in adjacent STEM fields (discrete mathematics and graph theory matter more in CS, but far less for day-to-day programming). History of mathematics is effectively an entirely separate discipline and philosophy of mathematics has meta-mathematics/mathematical logic as a prerequisite.
Calculus unlocks much of physics and engineering (and lots of stats!). Large cardinal theory does not unlock any other field to the best of my understanding.
There ought to be some way to encourage late high school/early college students to "survey" the field without necessarily taking full courses in these topics. This could also give some earlier understanding in how the different fields relate - for example you could present a toy graph theory problem within linear algebra as a matrix problem, later presenting the same problem in graph theory section and walk through it using graph representation. I think high school courses struggle with memorability precisely because most units are taught basically in a vacuum.
Regardless though, the point of the survey course wouldn't be to remember details so much as to find topics of interest for further study/be generally aware of their existence in case a relevant problem comes up in the future.
And, from that perspective (with which I agree), calculus itself is just another instance of trying to turn a non-linear problem into a problem in linear algebra!
Linear algebra became a lot more interesting once you had cheap computers and Matlab.
The Math in my 4 year engineering degree was structured something like this:
First Semester Year 1 two math courses: Calculus 1, Linear Algebra
Second Semester Year 1 two math courses: Calculus 2, Sequences and Series (this one was probably least useful all I remember from this 15+ years later is Taylor Series and Binomial Theorem)
First Semester year 2 two math courses: Differential Equations, Statistics for Engineers.
From second semester year 2 onwards there were no more discrete math classes this was where the degree really specialized into various engineering streams, Mech Eng, Chem Eng, Civil etc. Had their own courses. I studied Materials Engineering some courses were shared with other eng students (For example I shared Thermodynamics with Mechanical Engineering students) but others such as Non-ferrous metallurgy were pretty deeply specialized.
A lot of subject used built on earlier math (Fluid Dynamics was backed up by lots of differential equations for example, stuff like Gamma Function would come up in a lot of places. Solid Mechanics had a lot of integrals second moment of area etc.), Linear Algebra I can remember from Fracture mechanics and crack propagation (Stress and Strain tensors etc.)
Have a Master's in Material Science and still don't remember a lot of Linear Algebra specifically.
I have some appreciation for calculus now but I really did not enjoy it much in high school or even in college. It turned me away from learning more math for some time which is unfortunate - linear algebra isn't my favorite either but I liked that much more off the bat, so I wish I had some exposure to it in high school. Then again, maybe the high school teaching style is what made me dislike calc to begin with.
And yes probability and statistics are fundamental. I was shocked a bit when I learned it was not taught in highschools world wide (i.e. not in the U.S.A.). But then again I had gotten numb with the current average level in the taught topics people arrive at undergrad at.
Note there is a lot of interconnectivity. To understand a new concept you might need concepts in another. E.g. number theory and probability.
The true foundational classes in the typical undergraduate mathematics curriculum are logic and abstract algebra. People rarely start with them, because the usual way of teaching mathematics is applications before foundations. You learn linear algebra before abstract algebra, proofs before formal logic, and axiomatic probability before measure theory.
And there is definitely such thing as too much linear algebra. Once upon a time, I wanted a decent mathematical background for theoretical CS and continued (at least) until the first graduate-level class in most major topics. Graduate linear algebra was "foundations without applications" for me, as I've never worked on anything building on it.
In the first year (non US) you learn linear algebra, some real analysis and how to write proofs as well as important basics. In your second year you can choose all these electives, which then don't have to spend time introducing natural numbers, induction etc.