If you run a well org... "calls" for ;on-call ppl will be few - but the stress of being mentally "available 24/7" on the on-call position is greater than the stress of tactically dealing with the random event...
Thus, lets assume its your on-call week - and you are supposed to take yur SO for Dinner for [EVENT] (anivv, date-nite, familial thing) - etc...
Do you know how much emotional/mental stress that puts on the employee?
You want your top ops guy avail when you need him in a pinch and he is NOT the guy on call, but the SME who can only solve this X?
Yeah - you best treat them well, to ensure not noly THEY BUT THEIR ENTIRE FAMILIES RECOGNIZE THEIR VALUE.
How many douche-bag managers ONLY think about their emplyees contribution as pposed to the actual contribution their family sacrifices to your fucking company?
Their kids? THier wives/husbands/relationships?
GO FUCK YOURSELF IF YOU THINK IN ANY TERMS OTHER THAN ***HUMAN***
{I AM TALKING TO IT/OPs ON-CALL CULTURE IN GENERAL, NOT YOU IN SPECIFIC. IF You are an ops/SRE/DevOps/IT manager - heed my comment..
This is the reason every employee I have had wants to work with me again.
Family first. And if you live alone, Family First (you are your family. Take care of yourself)