Yes, there is. I'm not just making this up. I've gotten takes from "musl people", including Rich Felker, that this was a deliberate choice, and that not only is musl's behavior of pretending that truncated UDP responses are valid acceptable, but that it's somehow better (maybe for performance?) --- that you can always serve "getaddrinfo" off of just the truncated UDP result. Which is, of course, false.
There is a weird thing going on; maybe you can relay this back to the #musl channel you're talking on, and they can keep discussing.