That's fine. Discord already has thousands of conversations that I've had with people. Google has a history of places I've visited and I've had an improved Google maps experience from that data. I don't really take many pictures with people. I would say I am mostly fine with it. It would me nice if they could disclose what they collect though. I think informing consumers is a good thing.

I don't see it as abusive. You would be weird to do so though.

Once you have shared a picture of your bedroom to the world I believe it should be free to exist. If someone noted that you had a booshelf in your room I don't believe you should be able to have that information taken down just because it is information related to you.

Edit: If knowledge of the bookshelf does not count as personal information instead someone could post your address my crossreferencing the photos with houses that have been sold in that area in the past.