Meanwhile, as you say, Erlang/Elixir gives me this model with 35+ years of history behind it (and no libraries/frameworks in use trying to provide me a leaky abstraction of something 'better'), better observability than the JVM, a safer memory model for concurrent code, a better model for reliability, with the main issue being the CPU hit (less of a concern for IO bound workloads, which is where this kind of concurrency is generally impactful anyway). Go has reduced observability than Java, sure, but a number of other tradeoffs I personally prefer (not least of all because in most of the Java shops I was in, I was the one most familiar with profiling and debugging Java. The tools are there, the experience amongst the average Java developer isn't), and will also be releasing twice between now and next year.
Again, I'm not saying virtual threads from Loom aren't cool (in fact, I said they were; the technical achievement of making it a drop in replacement is itself incredible), or that it wouldn't be useful when it releases for those choosing Java, stuck with Java due to legacy reasons, or using a JVM language that is now able to migrate to take advantage of this to remove some of the impedance mismatch between their concurrency model(s) and Java's threading and the resulting caveats. Just that I don't care until it does (because I've been hearing about it for the past 4 years), it still doesn't put it on par with the models other languages have adopted (memory model matters to me quite a bit since I tend to care about correct behavior under load more than raw performance numbers; that said, of course, nothing is preventing people from adopting safer practices there...just like nothing has been in years previous. They just...haven't), nor do I care about the claims people make about it displacing X, Y, or Z. It probably will for new code! Whenever it gets fully supported in production. But there's still all that legacy code written over the past two decades using libraries and frameworks built to work around Java's initial 1:1 threading model, and which simply due to calling conventions and architecture (i.e., reactive and etc) would have to be rewritten, which probably won't happen due to the reality of production projects, even if there were clear gains in doing so (which as the great-grandparent mentions, is not nearly so clearcut).