Making everything slower and harder to retain flexibility you don't need isn't a great tradeoff.
Extracting and reusing data, yes. Getting it into the tool in the first place, no way. Tools that won't even allow you to save your data and make it persistent until you conform to every single integrity requirement are a nightmare for end users.
People doing mapping tasks will use an editor and not really see the change.
People consuming the data will also mostly use tools, tools that likely run much faster.
I've written some code to chop up overlapping gis areas into ways and relations (to match the current data model of references to shared nodes). The input to that code is pretty close to the proposed data model, so not going to be more difficult to do that processing (as an example of a task that doesn't just use 3rd party tools).
> Why not just create accelerators based on an intermediat format?
making things easier for mappers by introducing new data format requires changing format used by mappers
Vespucci is a really handy Android app for making contributions to OSM, but it's hard to use without knowing something about the tagging conventions.