Ah, don't remind me Java people write C++ like they write Java, I've seen my fair share, thank you.

> Writing good C++ is hard.

I concur, however writing good Java is also hard. e.g. Swing has a fixed and correct initialization/build sequence, and Java self-corrects if you diverge, but you get a noticeable performance hit. Most developers miss the signs and don't fix these innocent looking mistakes.

I've learnt C++ first and Java later. I also tend to hit myself pretty hard during testing (incl. Valgrind memory sanity and Cachegrind hotpath checks), so I don't claim I write impeccable C++. Instead I assume I'm worse than average and try to find what's wrong vigorously and fix them ruthlessly.