The kids that didn't survive were buried and no longer interact with us.
Can You guess why? Thats right - he also had a policy to not take phone calls from unknown numbers (especially foreign). They had to go to ours country ambassy in Spain (which took a while) and beg for help.
Since that day his father answers all calls :)
Neither of these calls often. Maybe once a year you get call like that. But when they call, you really want to pick up.