(there's the challenge of length; there's no problem upping the post-length for comments etc., but many instances will reject them, so you do face the issue of having to replace the body of longer comments with a link to a page, which is sub-optimal but doable)

They're more than PR reasons if you're one of his "wrong sorts"; personally, I'm not confident trusting (for practical reasons) or comfortable using (for emotional reasons) a piece of software whose MDfL doesn't think I should exist.

It's probably off-topic for this discussion, but it's important to keep in mind if you're building a little community on the Fediverse: your choice of software ties your community's culture – at least partially – to the community of the developers. Your users will want to submit bug reports, and so on.

I've seen it so much, I'm more inclined to believe it absolutely didn't happen that way.

Alex has shit opinions, 100%. But the back and forths in the Pleroma MRs linked are at the level of high school catty drama. And that applies to everyone in there, on both sides. I feel like every single MR listed would have gone completely differently if the people involved treated the others as humans and actually worked towards building better software. At the end of the day, the commits were simple enough and could have been worked on had the people there actually wanted to do that. But instead they all just turned into name-calling high school kids. In short, everyone there needs to grow up.

And while I agree that a one man shop in the form of Soapbox is likely not going to last, I wouldn’t put my support in for Pleroma based on what I read either.