.sh is appropriate for a shell library module which you source from another shell script. It is not really appropriate for something which is more abstract (such as a "program" inside your PATH).
set -e / set -o errexit will only be helpful if you fundamentally understand exactly what it does, if you don't, you are bound to end up with broken code. Once you fundamentally understand set -e you will be better placed to decide whether it is appropriate to use it or more appropriate to simply do proper error handling. The oft repeated mantra of using set -e is really misleading a lot of people into thinking that bash has some sane mode of operation which will reduce their chance of making mistakes, people should never be mislead to think that bash will ever do anything sane.
set -u / set -o nounset breaks a lot of perfectly sensible bash idioms and is generally bad at what proponents of it claim it will help solve (using unset variables by accident or by misspelling). There are better linters which solve this problem much better without having to sacrifice some of what makes bash scripts easier to write/read.
set -o pipefail is not an improvement/detriment, it is simply changing the way that one of bash's features functions. pipefail should only be set around specific uses of pipelines when it is known that it will produce the intended result. For example, take this common idiom:
if foo | grep -q bar; then ...
The above will NOT behave correctly (i.e. evaluate to a non-zero exit code) if grep -q closes its input as soon as it finds a match and foo handles the resulting SIGPIPE by exiting with a non-zero status code.Guarding set -x / set -o xtrace seems unnecessary, -x is already automatically inherited. Just set it before running the program.
Good advice on using [[ but it is important to fundamentally understand the nuances of this, quoting rules change within the context of [[.
Accepting h and help seems incredibly unnecessary. If someone who has never used a unix-like operating system happens upon your script then they may find it useful. But I don't think catering to such a low common denominator makes sense. Your script should just handle invalid arguments by printing a usage statement with maybe a hint of how to get a full help message.
I'd say changing to your script's directory is almost never appropriate.
Shellcheck, while useful, is useful only if you understand bash well.
The lesson here is that if you think that you have spent enough time writing bash to suggest best practices, you've not spent enough time writing bash. Only when you realise that the best practice is to not use bash have you used bash long enough (or short enough).
If you want to write a script which you're going to rely on or distribute, learn bash inside out and then carefully consider if it's still the right option.
If you are unwilling or unable to learn bash inside out then please use something else.
Do not be fooled into thinking that some "best practices" you read online will save you from bash.