It's not "if you're used to procedural programming" - FP is simply hard for people to reason about. You can often very intuitively reason about imperative programs, while FP always requires putting your abstract thinker cap on. Look at any non-software person describing describing how to do something and see how often that sounds like an imperative program vs an FP one. Hell, most algorithms papers are themselves using imperative pseudo-code, not FP pseudo-code (unless they're specifically describing novel algorithms important for FP of course).
> I am convinced the more we try to make mutable state, and concurrency safe and correct, the more FP concepts will leech into future languages.
Concurrent mutation is fundamentally hard regardless of what paradigm you chose to implement it in. Parallelism can be made safer by FP, but parallelism is actually pretty easy in every paradigm, with even a little bit of care. And concurrent updates of mutable state are just a fundamental requirement of many computer programs - you can try to wrap them in monads to make them more explicit, but you can't eliminate them from the business requirements. The real world is fundamentally stateful*, and much of our software has to interact with that statefullness.
* well, at least it appear so classically - apparently QM is essentially stateless outside its interactions with classical objects (the Born rule), but that's a different discussion.
