I also think saying that a retained mode UI has inherent overhead is a bit odd. immediate mode UIs have to rebuild their entire draw graph on each frame! meanwhile retained mode UIs have a bunch of metadata letting them get nice optimization improvements. Translating an object means you might not even need to redraw it!
There is definitely a certain truth to the OS being able to just force you down to a lower priority, but I think we all know that iOS is pushing the top app to as high a priority as possible. Meanwhile the "inherent difficulties" with something like AirBnB (getting data over the wire) are definitely inherent but this is why we talk about placeholders and stuff like that yeah?
But if you're in the business of selling rentals it's hard to have so many engineers focused on the performance of the app (especially when you are in the act of being successful already)