If you've long moved on and are no longer using PHP, why do you still consider yourself a "detractor"?
I still occasionally work with PHP for WordPress and it is still mostly not great. The mess of abstractions, the JS-like library installation system, the lack of any kind of concurrency, the mess with errors vs exceptions.
It just isn’t a language that makes me happy. Then again, I dread opening a .php file so maybe it’s a preconceived notion.
Libraries are infinitely preferable to frameworks if you want your application's life cycle to be independent of $POPULAR_FRAMEWORK's.
Even with Laravel, which is the current thing in the PHP world, I've worked in multiple teams where their application is written in a very old version of Laravel and there's no desire to attempt an upgrade to the most recent version.