I am feeling similarly. We’ve got a few apps in fly and have convinced devs to use it for their side projects. We’re excited about the promise of fly and were considering the HIPAA plan.
But these stability issues actually make me more nervous about the fact that I’d have to manage my own postgres cluster and have to learn how to recover it in such an event. AWS RDS has made me soft!
Wishing you guys the best. We’ll still use fly for QA until a few of these issues are sorted out. And until there’s fully managed pg (first party or third party)