I'm not sure why you're being so disingenuous here. It's painfully obvious there's a difference between costs invoked by best-practices and regular business operations and costs invoked by
another bank making bad decisions, going bust, and then
the other banks' customers having to pay that difference.
Making an argument that we should all eat this cost to avoid contagion, etc. might hold some water (and the Fed was stuck between a rock and a hard place), but let's not pretend it's not a cost we're all eating, on top of it being an inflationary move.