What you're saying is that the analogy between subtraction and division is good as far as it goes. So why should "as far as it goes" end at zero not having an inverse, rather than division by zero producing something other than the multiplicative inverse of zero? The two choices end up having different structure, and so they end up being applicable to different things, but there is nothing wrong with either choice.
The word division means something in mathematics. There is general agreement in what that word ought to mean. You can define a binary operation in such a way that it doesn’t look like what we normally think of as division and label your operation division. In the same way you can define the symbol duck to refer to what most people call a chair. You won’t get anyone else agreeing with your new definition though.
I think I understand better where you are coming from. In computer science I don’t know what they typically mean when they say “division”. I’ll be more precise. In abstract algebra division means multiplying by the inverse. All of the notions of division mentioned in the Wikipedia page come from this idea. Computers can’t work with within the realm of the entire real number system. There they have notions of type. They like to extend common operators like “/“ to things that normally it doesn’t apply to. A computer language will sometimes return a value of int or some other type when the integer 5 is divided by 3. Depending on how the language designer wanted things to work. This isn’t division in a mathematical sense though.
