I always felt that "it's up to the developer to do the right thing" violates the normal Rails convention over configuration principles, but I also weigh breaking a large % of existing Rails apps in a way that is not easy to quickly fix heavily.
That said, this problem is almost identical to XSS protection. We were able to find a solution that mostly "just works" for new developers, with some caveats, but it broke nearly all existing apps in a way that required significant effort to fix.
Like mass assignment, previous vulnerabilities were caused by Rails defaults that caused most users to make mistakes (nearly everyone had at least a few cases where `h` was required but wasn't done).
Like XSS protection, we have a solution here that will mostly just work for the happy path. The end result is a Rails default that will be only marginal harder to use than what we have now, but secure by default.