> No you aren’t, you are taking a stance against someone being shocked / disgusted at hearing 4 white men say they would never date a Black woman.
Parent isn't taking issue with the blog author being disgusted but rather the question the author raises.
I'll just copy what I said for your second sentence.
The blog author doesn't actually make it clear if the line
> You are not entitled to sex with anyone, but people can have preferences that are problematic.
is spoken from their perspective or the book author's perspective. It's not a given that they agree with that sentiment. So it might be that the blog author briefly entertained their question of entitlement as a consideration before arriving at the conclusion quoted above, or they still favor it.
Parent probably has biases that led them to interpret it how they did, but everyone has biases and parent hasn't replied to me yet, so I'm not sure if they intentionally reading it that way.
