> My point with the personal anecdote is precisely that you can write bad or good code with both. however that an ORM can allow for more consistent experience across many more people.
I find it interesting that you say that; my takes is that it's the other way around!
SQL join statements look the same no matter what programming language the reader is used to, but each ORM differs in the way the join looks to the reader. The EF method of filtering your results set in C# looks very different indeed to how the ORM for Python would do it.
Every ORM looks different, which results in a very inconsistent experience for people, especially when you bring in a DB expert to figure out why there's a slowdown somewhere, and he cannot just visually inspect the EF/SQLAlchemy code and say "Well, here's what's wrong".
DB experts can usually very easily do that just by looking at the SQL, no matter what programming language was used.
