MacOS also has telemetry.
>For backend stuff it's almost implicit that you're running on Linux in prod and macos is well supported because it's fairly similar.
Then Windows would be better than MacOS in this regard because WSL2 is exactly Linux, not just "fairly similar" to Linux.
>stuff randomly breaking between updates
What stuff broke for you between updates? Our entire DS team develops in windows + WSL2 and nothing broke for them in ~5 years. Maybe they know how to use a computer.
Ultimately just use what you like and what makes you productive, no need to crusade for some big corporation. The OS is just a tool for your job, like a hammer.