I got into programming in the 1990s. At that point in time, there was still a large contingent of programmers loudly insisting they needed assembly language to do everything. And to be clear, I mean, everything. Not "Yeah, I can't really bring up an OS without a bit of specialized assembly" but "every programmer should write every program in assembly".

The vast majority of them were already wrong. They only got more wrong.

You may just be used to knowing what code is "synchronous" and what isn't because it's been shoved into your face and you've adapted your thought process to it. In practice, "everything important is doing something 'asynchronously'" turns out to be the vast majority of what you need, and the vast majority of your mental energy you are dedicated to splitting the world in two is a waste. For the little bit that remains, by all means use something specialized, but it's just not something that everyone, everywhere, needs to be doing all the time, any more than everyone everywhere should be manually allocating registers, or any more than programs need to have line numbers because otherwise how can they work? (One of my favorites because I remember having that conception myself.)