This is exactly what I mean.
Compare that to using the ORMs from Django, Laravel or Rails or some of the Java ones. You can be sure than 3~4 years from now they'll still be around, well maintained and probably without big rewrites or API changes.
Not saying that it's not the best option in node land (I don't know), but what frustrates me is that there's no clear option for many core/basic things. And always "the best solution that's going to fix everything" seems to be the one that appeared last. Feels like building on top of mud to be honest.