Dlopen has drawbacks but also major benefits. We decided the benefits relatively clearly outweigh the drawbacks, but of course people may disagree.
I have proposed a mechanism before, that would expose the list of libs we potentially load via dlopen into an ELF section or ELF note. This could be consumed by things such as packagae managers (for auto-dep generation) and ldd. However there was no interest in getting this landed from anyone else, so I dropped it.
Note that there are various cases where people use dlopen not on hardcoded lib names, but dynamically configured ones, where this would not help. I.e. things like glibc nss or pam or anything else plugin based. But in particular pam kinda matters since that tends to be loaded into almost any kind of security relavant software, including sshd.