Your examples however are PEBCAK. Taking them one by one:
1) Kids are noisy. Full stop. Deal. And the odd point about features (windshield wipers? remote dashcam viewing from the app while parked? wheels?) requiring engineering is quirky and bizarro.
2) Common misconception. Adjust the AC. The AC in a Tesla is from God himself (and I don't mean Elon, I mean God himself). But while the glory goes to God, the credit goes to the massive battery. There are simply no constraints on how much cooling can be done. Elon understands this, and he invited God to design the system and God really came through. And the delta in energy use is minuscule versus the AC energy you would expend with a metal roof. And the thin roof is giving you more headroom and storage room. White interior? Never! Besides if you're worried you can pre-cool the car remotely from the app over the internet, or even schedule it.
3) I suppose you did not try stepping on the brake and putting the car in gear. It will engage immediately.
Also, curious, is it:
(EV6 (ventilated seats!) and the Leaf) (but the battery/charging situation is disqualifying)
or:
EV6 (ventilated seats!) and (the Leaf (but the battery/charging situation is disqualifying))
? If the latter, do tell.
If ventilated seats are your thing, the Model Y should have them in some unknown number of months when they put out the redesign. Ventilated seats were added for the redesign of the Model 3.
It's possible the current short promotional 0.99% financing for Model Y is designed to clear out inventory to make room for the updated Model Y with ventilated seats... who knows.
Curious to hear your other PEBCAK examples.