I think the comparison to FAANG is unfair. Most operators, after a priced round, AFAIK, are paid fairly, sans FAANG. The idea that any startup should have similar comps to companies that have been growing 50%+ year/year for decades with money shooting out of every orifice isn't realistic. Most startups don't compete with comp packages from FAANG for the same reason that Target doesn't offer competing packages - they aren't making that much money. An exception, OpenAI, which is completely flush with money.
More succinctly, FAANG salaries aren't market rate salaries - they are above market. I find operators are paid in comparison to similar sized companies, especially companies that appear "mature" after their 2nd or 3rd priced round. It's the same reason the quants at Chase don't make as much as the quants at RenTech, doesn't mean the Chase quants are being paid under market.