More than that, I'd think a better 2D analogy for the latent space is a force-directed graph that you keep shaking as you add things to it. It doesn't seem unlikely for two such graphs, constructed in different order, to still end up identical in the end.
Thirdly:
> if we have 3 million things on both our mindmaps, it's peering too closely to wonder why you put mcdonalds closer to kids food than restaurants, and you have restaurants in the top left, whereas I put it closer to kids foods, in the top mid left.
In 2D analogy, maybe, but that's because of limited space. In 20 000 D analogy, there's no reason for our mind maps to meaningfully differ here; there's enough dimensions that terms can be close to other terms for any relationship you could think of.