GraphQL feels like magic when you first start with it (which should be a red flag) but once you need to support more roles or sets of permissions and as your business logic starts to creep in things go haywire. In my experience things that are easy up front are unmanageable once business logic gets added in. For straight CRUD it's amazing but very rarely do our apps stay as just CRUD and that's when things fall down. For example, on create of a new user I need to send a welcome email. It's been 5 years since I was working on that GraphQL project but I have no clue how we'd handle that. I'm sure there is some kind of a event system we could hook into but with REST I just have a simple endpoint that saves the data to the DB and then sends and email (or puts it in a queue), way easier than in GraphQL. Again, fetching and updating data is easy until you need to handle edge cases. I have the same feelings about Firebase and friends. Feels like magic at the start but falls down quick and/or becomes way too complicated. GraphQL feels like DRY run amuck, "I have to keep writing CRUD, let me abstract that away", ok but now if you need special logic for certain use-cases you have a mess on your hands. Maybe GraphQL has ways to solve it but I'll bet my hat that it's overly complicated and hard to follow, like most of GraphQL once you get past the surface.
I'd love to see a "Pet Store" (I think that's the common example I've seen demo'd in REST/Swagger/GraphQL/etc) example with heavy restrictions based on different users/roles. It's like using the "Todo app" example in a framework, sure that works and is straight forward, I want to see how you handle the hard stuff and if it's still easy.
A while later, suppose someone adds some connection from user to, say, orders. The person who added orders to users was kinda lazy and assumed (somewhat correctly, at that moment anyway) that permissions weren't an issue. So there's no additional permission checking when fetching the orders connection.
Now, suppose 6 months pass. Some other engineer is now implementing reviews. Each review must have an author. What do ya know, there's already a user object available in Graphql. How convenient!
Now every user can inspect all orders of every other user, if that user has left a review.
Mistakes like this are all too easy with graphql, and is the number one reason I would never consider using graphql without a query whitelist.