and, c’mon, people do harder things in the interest of family.
Maintaining a home is a shitload of work, but we dont live in a prison so that we can avoid the effort of cleaning and cooking.
The skills to run a federated matrix instance, for example, can be had in less time than it takes to learn how to BBQ without starting a fire or poisoning someone. Yet we choose to do that, we even consider transferal of those skills to be a bonding experience.
