What if the callee sometimes wants to get a reference count and sometimes doesn't? In the latter case, your proposed signature forces an unnecessary pair of atomic reference count operations. But if you use
foo(bar const&)
instead, then foo can't acquire a reference even when it wants to.You could stick std::enable_shared_from_this` under `bar`. But `std::enable_shared_from_this` adds a machine word of memory, so you might not want to do that.
If you pass
foo(shared_ptr<bar> const&)
you incur an extra pointer chase in the callee. Sure, you could write foo(bar const&, shared_ptr<bar> const&)
but then you burn an extra argument register. You can't win, can you?You can win actually. Just use https://www.boost.org/doc/libs/1_85_0/libs/smart_ptr/doc/htm... or your favorite intrusive reference-counted smart pointer, not `std::shared_ptr`. If you do, you get the same capabilities that `std::enable_shared_from_this` grants but without any of the downsides.