I tend to agree, but...
From my recollection of using Zoom-- it has this bizarre but workable recovery method for network interruptions. Either the server or the client keeps some amount of the last input audio in a buffer. Then if the server detects connection problems at time 't', it grabs the buffer from t - 1 seconds all the way until the server detects better connectivity. Then it starts a race condition, playing back that amount of the buffer to all clients at something like 1.5 speed. From what I remember, this algo typically wins the race and saves the client from having to repeat themselves.
That's not happening inside a DSP routine. But my point is that some clever engineer(s) at Zoom realized that missing deadlines in audio delivery does not necessarily mean "hosed." I'm also going to rankly speculate that every other video conferencing tool hard-coupled missing deadlines with "hosed," and that's why Zoom is the only one where I've ever experienced the benefit of that feature.