That's a misunderstanding in your use of this ingress-controller "ssl-passthrough" feature.
> This feature is implemented by intercepting all traffic on the configured HTTPS port (default: 443) and handing it over to a local TCP proxy. This bypasses NGINX completely and introduces a non-negligible performance penalty.
> SSL Passthrough leverages SNI and reads the virtual domain from the TLS negotiation
So if you want multiple subdomains handled by the same ip address and using the same wildcard TLS cert, and chrome re-uses the connection for a different subdomain, nginx needs to handle/parse the http, and http-proxy to the backends. In this ssl-passthrough mode it can only look at the SNI host in the initial TLS handshake, and that's it, it can't look at the contents of the traffic. This is a limitation of http/tls/tcp, not of nginx.