I didn't leave the community because of it. I left it because Ruby was slow as molasses, dynamic typing is a failed experiment (imo) and people would love magic and be proud of it. Which meant systems would break in production more times than I could take and I have done so many on call rotations because someone thought some magic was a fun way of doing it.
For personal projects I used Steel Bank Common Lisp because there the dynamic nature of the language actually has benefits such as programming through the REPL which is much more reliable than typing dynamic code in an editor to build programs.
Once I had to hire people I moved to Go but then again moved to Rust because I want to write programs which do not break, is fast as possible and doesn't take my users' memory and cpu for granted. Who am I to burn their electric bill or data plan while delivering broken buggy software to them. Plus I cannot stand null pointer exceptions and Go due to their ideological drive of remaining "simple" has null pointer exceptions in 2024.
Also the other meta thing I realized was because Rust is harder to get into, the discourse, libraries, tutorials, community is much higher quality compared to anything else I have seen so far so I really enjoy it. Plus Rust has some really cool things like high level maps and functional code while them compiling down to the same Assembly as for loops and other such zero cost abstractions that I like.
I’d agree that I wouldn’t like to support a large Ruby codebase commercially but in team of 1-4 devs and codebase not much larger than 10k lines it’s very productive (numbers pulled from thin air ofc).