You don't actually need to have the "adjust priority of element" operation to implement Dijkstra or A-star. The standard description of the algorithm always include this, but it is not actually necessary: instead of adjusting element priority, you just push duplicate vertices with new priorities on to the queue, and when you pop the queue, you just check if you've already seen this vertex before. If so discard it and pop the next one. The algorithm still works, since the first time you pop a vertex that is the shortest path, and the rest of the time you can ignore it. Simple to implement and plenty fast. There's no difference in time complexity: you have to consider the "duplicate" case at some point, you're just pushing to a later time when you pop it from the queue.

You might argue that is wasteful of space pushing these duplicates, but your other options are either to graft this functionality on to a normal priority queue in which case you're using that space anyway, or to use a much more complex and usually slower kind of priority queue with this operation naturally (e.g. Fibonacci heaps). The space wasted is quite small in practice, since the only time this happens is if multiple nodes on the frontier points to the same element, but most nodes ("in practice") have small degree of incoming paths. The benefit of being able to use standard (and very fast!) priority queues without this weird operation is well worth it.

In my experience of implementing Dijkstra and A-star a couple of dozen times (I like Advent of Code problems!) this has always been the better way to do it. I mean, I haven't put Dijkstra/A-star into production or anything (I don't work for Google Maps or whatever), but in my experience this is the simplest and fastest way in practice to implement these algorithms.