We're in a prisoner's dilemma situation and folks are acting rationally within it. Trying to blame the individual isn't likely to go anywhere. You can't control other people, only your response and this is what you can do. Without a law that forces coordination so we get back to the good outcome it will keep happening.
Sadly it's politically untenable in most (all?) the US not least of which because people will just buy trucks in other states that allow them.