The problem starts at XWayland, not Wayland. And XWayland is just your typical X server with all its X intricacies.
Only if we can somehow communicate our intended scale to the X clients through XWayland... oh, we can't!
> Its very odd for folks to argue that my mixed DPI system using only basic boring old xorg.conf somehow doesn't exist.
You keep on confusing per-window and per-output DPI. I can only assume you are feigning ignorance at this point. Good luck with attitude.
I still have a couple GTK2 apps installed that doesn't support HiDPI, those are best used upscaled but... they can't. Those apps are unable to communicate to the server they are rendered at 1x (rather, the server doesn't have the notion of per-window scales at all).