The situation of messages vs events is analogous to append-only database vs update-in-place database. You get exposed to the same issues at scale if you rely on the later.
Being notified only _when_ something happened isn't always useful the world is changing underneath you (it _can be_ useful in particular situations, when you know state is final, but not as a general architecture principle).
> The situation of messages vs events is analogous to append-only database vs update-in-place database. You get exposed to the same issues at scale if you rely on the later.
Not really. Messages vs events is a foundational design trait whose discussion involves topics such as adopting distinct messaging patterns such as message queues or pub-sub. They have completely different responsibilities and solve completely different problems.