No, this does indeed match reality. At least for those who work with microservices. This is microservices 101. It's baffling how this is even being argued.
We have industry behemoths building their whole development experience around this fact. Look at Microsoft. They even went to the extents of supporting Connected Services in Visual Studio 2022. Why on earth do you believe one of the most basic traits of backend development is unreal?
> I work at ~50 ish employee company and we have layers of dependencies between at least 6 or 7 various microservices.
Irrelevant. Each service has dependencies and consumers. When you need to run an instance of one of those services locally, you point it to it's dependencies and you unplug it from it's consumers. Done. This is not rocket science.
True. Your run-of-the-mill shop should have a simpler and more straight-forward system.
But you seem to want the reverse.
I'm talking about how Microsoft added support for connected services to Visual Studio. It's literally a tool that anyone in the world can use. They added the feature to address existing customer needs.
How does that solve the problem of a mess of interconnected services where you may have to change 3 or more of them simultaneously in order to implement a change?
You have to test the changes you want to push. That's the whole basis of CI/CD. The question is at which stage are you ok with seeing your pipeline build.
If you accept that you can block your whole pipeline by merging a bad PR then that's ok.
In the meantime, it is customary to configure pipelines to run unit, integration tests, and sometimes even contract tests when creating a feature branch. Some platforms even provide high-level support for spinning up sandbox environment as part of their pipeline infrastructure.
Why not break a microservice into a series of microservices, its microservices all the way down.
Multiple services connecting to the same database has been considered a bad idea for a long time. I don't necessarily agree, but I have no experience in that department. It does mean more of your business logic lives in the database (rules, triggers, etc).
Not true at all.
You're conflating the need for distributed transactions with the definition of microservices. That's not it.
> Multiple services connecting to the same database has been considered a bad idea for a long time.
Not the same thing at all. Microservices do have the database per service pattern, and even the database instance per service instance pattern, but shared database pattern is also something that exists in the real world. That's not what makes a microservice a microservice.
You should read up on microservices because that's definitely not what they are not anything resembling one of their traits.
