There's definitely a certain mindset that helps make it more enjoyable. Imagination being key! From the technical side, the developers have peeled back the curtain on how they've created parts of the game:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U03XXzcThGU&ab_channel=Logo%...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jV-DZqdKlnE&ab_channel=GDC20...
However the recent update for Steam - and I'm very glad for the dev success - has left me cold and I haven't played it since.
I've been building dorf death forts since 2010 though and will always remember the goblins riding giant sparrow invasion of my underground cavern level fort in v0.34.
I'll never play either, but they're super cool and deserve a footnote in gaming history.