I'm not sure I understand the point of mentioning the language. If it was written in a language like c but still "shoved down your throat" would you still have qualms with it? Do you just like things written by corporate entities and those languages tend to be popular as they scale to larger teams well? Or do you dislike software that is too large to understand and optimized for the needs of larger teams? Because it doesn't matter if it's software or some grouping of distinct software - at some point there will be a point at which it becomes challenging to understand the full set of software.

If I were to create an analogy, it feels like you're complaining about civil engineers who design skyscrapers to be built out of steel and concrete instead of wood and brick like we use for houses. Sure the former is not really maintainable by a single person but it's also built for higher capacity occupancy and teams of folks to maintain.