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0 pointstills131y ago0 comments

> adapt the timing of my escape plans accordingly

No offense but unless you have at least $1b or are incredibly lucky you're screwed no matter how prepared you are.

Menial and positive stories aren't as engaging resulting in the "news" being nothing but a list of all the awful shit that happened recently.

Enjoy life while you still have it. As another commenter already said, important stories will find you anyways.

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Fischgericht1y ago

Very off-topic here, but no, money is not the key when trying to find a spot on this planet that nobody does have on their radar when it comes to fucking up the planet on short notice :)

Also: Different people, different coping strategies. I don't want to wait until the "Active Shooter!" cell broadcast message finds its way to my phone. :)

For some people, potentially especially those on the spectrum, having as much information as possible to work with might bring mental security and stability.

People are different, brains are diverse.

nrr1y ago

I'm also on team Keep An Eye On Things™, and approximately none of it really feeds into an anxiety loop. (There's a tiny sliver of the pie that does, but it's easy enough to talk myself off that ledge and go engage in a Weltschmerzspaziergang[0].)

I know it's stuff I can't control, and that's sort of the point. I want to know what I can't control so that I can know what I can control, if that makes sense.

0: Otherwise known as "touching grass."

Fischgericht1y ago

Spot on.

Closely tracking things you can not control may provide a sense of control to some.

Or the other way round: Crunching enough data and building reasonable predictions based on that takes away the element of surprise, and the element of surprise for some translates to anxiety.

For me the only things that scare me are in the "I have no data on that" category.

nrr1y ago

It's all part of the actuarial mindset. The entire point of the exercise is to arrive at a model of reality that has some degree of predictive power.

> For me the only things that scare me are in the "I have no data on that" category.

I feel exactly the same way. It means that I have no idea what those things will wind up costing me, and that's the anxiety trigger as far as I'm concerned.

butlike1y ago

That's a fair point, I just want to call out no one except you can tell you what you can control, since you're able to just "do things."

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Fischgericht1y ago

Very off-topic here, but no, money is not the key when trying to find a spot on this planet that nobody does have on their radar when it comes to fucking up the planet on short notice :)

Also: Different people, different coping strategies. I don't want to wait until the "Active Shooter!" cell broadcast message finds its way to my phone. :)

For some people, potentially especially those on the spectrum, having as much information as possible to work with might bring mental security and stability.

People are different, brains are diverse.

nrr1y ago

I know it's stuff I can't control, and that's sort of the point. I want to know what I can't control so that I can know what I can control, if that makes sense.

0: Otherwise known as "touching grass."

Fischgericht1y ago

Spot on.

Closely tracking things you can not control may provide a sense of control to some.

Or the other way round: Crunching enough data and building reasonable predictions based on that takes away the element of surprise, and the element of surprise for some translates to anxiety.

For me the only things that scare me are in the "I have no data on that" category.

nrr1y ago

It's all part of the actuarial mindset. The entire point of the exercise is to arrive at a model of reality that has some degree of predictive power.

> For me the only things that scare me are in the "I have no data on that" category.

I feel exactly the same way. It means that I have no idea what those things will wind up costing me, and that's the anxiety trigger as far as I'm concerned.

butlike1y ago

That's a fair point, I just want to call out no one except you can tell you what you can control, since you're able to just "do things."

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