Second, have you tried windows or macOS recently?
I used to run Alpine Linux on servers, decided i wanted to change to something less exotic and found that Debian is no less buggy. No idea how to go on.
Windows is consistently worse, i haven't tried macOS as it is not really popular here.
The lts is fine, no problems at all.
I run arch and so I bump into those once in a blue moon but it's rare.
Debian runs older versions so you miss recent bug fixes but at the same time you should see minimal regressions. Pick your poison.
You might be extra sensitive to bugs. I'm that way too but at least I can fix them when I have the source.
I also only use a few apps (Firefox, eMacs, VLC, gimp) and i3 as my window manager. It's been a long time since I hit a bug that actually impacted usability.
The suggestion with the bug sensitivity is belittling, cut that out.
I haven't had to go into the shell to change anything yet, the default files, software center all work as I expect out of the box, including mounting USB drives which has always been an annoyance to me.
Now I'm investing in learning CentOS Stream and SELinux, happy with the learning curve thus far.
On servers? How do you notice? Maybe you are doing things we don't?