>You have never talked about being angry, about being happy?
No. Why would I?
>Developers talk about being frustrated by tasks. Frustration is an emotion.
But they do not seek emotional support, they seek advice on how to overcome that frustration.
>And I see men writing about feeling lonely on hacker news all the time.
Coincidentally I have also never felt lonely.
Not once in my life have I felt the need to externalize my emotions. Of course I have had problems in my life, which I talked about with parents and friends, but my emotions where never part of that.